Staying positive does not mean that things will turn out okay. Rather it is knowing that you will be okay no matter how things turn out. —Garth Ennis

 

  

Embracing Resilience: The True Essence of Positivity

 

By Olivia Salter

 

In a world that often equates a positive outlook with guaranteed success, the words of Garth Ennis serve as a profound reminder of what it truly means to stay positive. “Staying positive does not mean that things will turn out okay. Rather it is knowing that you will be okay no matter how things turn out.” This statement isn’t just a quote; it’s a philosophy, a mindset that can significantly alter our approach to life’s challenges.

The Misconception of Positivity

Many of us have been conditioned to believe that positivity is a magic potion that leads to favorable outcomes. We’re told that if we just stay positive, everything will work out in the end. However, this belief sets many up for disappointment when reality doesn’t align with their expectations. Positivity, in this sense, becomes a fragile concept, easily shattered by the unpredictability of life.

The Reality of Positivity

Garth Ennis’s perspective shifts the narrative from a focus on outcomes to a focus on inner strength. True positivity is not about ensuring a perfect outcome; it’s about cultivating an inner resilience that allows us to remain steadfast, regardless of the circumstances. It’s about developing a core of steel that isn’t swayed by the storms of life.

The Power of Acceptance

At the heart of this form of positivity is acceptance. Acceptance doesn’t mean resignation or giving up on goals and dreams. Instead, it’s about acknowledging the reality of a situation and understanding that some factors are beyond our control. When we embrace acceptance, we free ourselves from the burden of needing things to go a certain way to feel okay.

The Role of Positivity in Adversity

When faced with adversity, a genuinely positive person doesn’t waste energy on denial or despair. They acknowledge the challenge, allow themselves to feel the full range of emotions, and then use their positivity as a tool to navigate through the difficulty. This approach doesn’t guarantee a solution, but it does guarantee personal growth and a sense of peace, regardless of the outcome.

 

In conclusion, Garth Ennis’s quote is a call to redefine positivity. It’s an invitation to build an unshakeable foundation within ourselves that can withstand any outcome. By doing so, we don’t just stay positive; we become resilient, adaptable, and truly at peace. And in this state, we find that we are okay, no matter how things turn out.

This philosophy of positivity isn’t just a way to handle the ups and downs of life; it’s a transformative approach that can lead to a more fulfilling and grounded existence. It’s a reminder that our well-being doesn’t hinge on the external but is rooted in the strength and serenity we cultivate within.

The Three Types of People in Your Life

 

 THE 3 TYPES OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE!

1. The Leaf People
2. The Branch People
3. The Root People

LEAF PEOPLE: These are people who come into your life just for a season. You can't depend on them because they are weak. They only come to take what they want, but if the wind comes they will leave.
You need to be careful of these people because they love you when things are okay, but when the wind comes they will leave you.

BRANCH PEOPLE: They are strong, but you need to be careful with them too. They break away when life becomes tough and they can't handle too much weight. They may stay with you in some seasons, but they will go when it becomes harder.

ROOT PEOPLE: These people are very important because they don't do things to be seen. They are supportive even if you go through a difficult time they will water you and they are not moved by your position they just love you like that.

It's not all people you meet or are your friends, that will stay with you. Only the root type of people will stay no matter the season!

The Soul's Journey: A Spiritual Perspective on Being a Soul and Experiencing Life Through the Human Body

The Soul's Journey: A Spiritual Perspective on Being a Soul and Experiencing Life Through the Human Body

By Olivia Salter

As we navigate through this earthly existence, it is important to remember that, at our core, we are not just physical beings but eternal souls on a journey of growth and evolution. Each lifetime is but a chapter in the larger story of our soul's journey, a unique opportunity for us to learn, grow, and expand our consciousness.

Our human bodies serve as vessels for our souls, allowing us to experience the physical world and engage with the lessons and challenges that come with it. Our bodies are like a temporary home for our soul, providing us with the tools and experiences necessary for our spiritual development.

It is important to remember that our bodies are merely a vessel—a vehicle for our soul to navigate the physical realm. Our true essence lies beyond the confines of our physical form, in the realm of spirit, where our soul resides. We are not defined by our physical appearance or limitations, but by the infinite potential and wisdom of our soul.

Each lifetime offers us a unique opportunity to learn and grow, to overcome obstacles and challenges, and to deepen our connection to our true selves. As we navigate through the ups and downs of life, it is important to remember that everything we experience is part of our soul's journey; each moment, each encounter, and each emotion is a stepping stone towards our spiritual growth.

In the grand scheme of things, our human experience is but a small part of the greater tapestry of our soul's journey. Each lifetime is like a thread in the fabric of our soul's evolution, weaving together the experiences and lessons that shape our spiritual path.

So, as we navigate through life, let us remember that we are more than just our physical bodies; we are eternal souls on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. Let us embrace the challenges and joys of our human experience with grace and gratitude, knowing that each moment is a precious opportunity for our soul to grow and evolve.

Stuff that Hurts Me: Replay in My Head Forever by Olivia Salter

 

Stuff that Hurts Me: Replay in My Head Forever

 

by Olivia Salter

Have you ever experienced a moment in your life that was so gut-wrenching that it seems to haunt you no matter how much time has passed? Are the moments that replay in our heads forever, the memories that we can't seem to shake no matter how hard we try. Whether it was a hurtful comment from a loved one, a betrayal from a friend, or a traumatic experience that left us scarred, these moments have a way of lingering in our minds long after they've occurred. They become a constant presence, a nagging voice that reminds us of our pain and keeps us stuck in the past.

But why do these memories have such a hold on us? Why do they continue to replay in our heads, causing us pain and anguish years after the fact? The answer lies in the power of our emotions and the impact that trauma can have on our brains.

When we experience something traumatic or painful, our brains go into overdrive, trying to make sense of what happened and process the intense emotions that come with it. This can lead to a phenomenon known as rumination, where we continuously replay the event in our minds, trying to find some sort of resolution or closure.

Unfortunately, this rumination can be incredibly harmful, leading to increased anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder. It can trap us in a cycle of negative thinking, preventing us from moving forward and finding peace.

So how can we break free from this cycle of reliving painful memories? The key lies in acceptance and forgiveness. By accepting what happened and acknowledging it, we can begin to heal and let go of the hold that these memories have on us.

Forgiveness is also crucial in this process. By forgiving those who have hurt us, we release the power that they hold over us and allow ourselves to move on. This doesn't mean that we condone their actions or forget what happened, but rather that we choose to let go of the anger and resentment that keep us tethered to the past.

It's important to remember that healing from past hurts takes time and patience. It won't happen overnight, and there may be setbacks along the way. But by practicing self-care, seeking therapy or support from loved ones, and focusing on the present moment, we can gradually loosen the grip that these painful memories have on us.

So if you find yourself trapped in a cycle of re-living past hurts, know that you're not alone. With time, effort, and a willingness to forgive and let go, you can break free from the chains of the past and create a brighter, more peaceful future for yourself.

 

Dance like nobody is watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth — Mark Twain.

 

 

Heaven On Earth:  The World Can Be A Brighter, More Beautiful Place

 

By Olivia Salter

 Dance like nobody is watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth. These words by Mark Twain are more than just a phrase; they are a reminder to live life to the fullest and embrace every moment with joy and enthusiasm.

Dancing like nobody's watching allows you to let go of inhibitions, express your emotions, and celebrate life. Whether you're dancing alone in your room or in a crowded club, let the music move you and feel the exuberance that comes with being truly alive.

Loving like you've never been hurt is a courageous act of vulnerability. It means opening your heart even after it's been broken and trusting in the power of love to heal and transform. Love has the ability to bring light into the darkest of places and to make life worth living. So don't hold back, but instead love fiercely and fearlessly.

Singing like nobody's listening is an expression of pure joy. It's about letting your voice soar and reveling in the beauty of music. Singing can uplift the spirit and bring a sense of peace and harmony. So belt out those tunes, whether in the shower, the car, or on stage, and let the music fill your soul.

Living like it's heaven on earth is about embracing each moment with gratitude and appreciation. It's about finding beauty in the simple things and savoring the magic of existence. Life is a precious gift, and every day is an opportunity to create memories, forge connections, and make a difference in the world.

So dance, love, sing, and live with passion and purpose. Embrace the fullness of life and savor every moment. Because when you do, you'll find that the world is a brighter, more beautiful place, and your heart will rejoice with love and gratitude.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. --Albert Einstein

The devil appeared to three monks and said to them: "If I gave you the power to change something in the past, what would you change?"

The first of them, with great apostolic fervor, replied: "I would like to prevent you from leading Adam and Eve to sin, so that humanity does not separate from God."

The second, a man full of mercy, said to him: "I will prevent you from straying from God and condemning you forever."

The third of them was the simplest and instead of answering the tempter, he knelt down, made the sign of the cross, and prayed: "Lord, deliver me from the temptation of what might have been and what was not."

The demon, screaming and trembling with pain, fled.

The other two were surprised and said to him: "Brother, why did you react like this?"

And he answered them: “First, we should never talk to the enemy.”

“Secondly, no one in the world has the power to change the past.”

“Third: Satan’s interest was not to prove our virtue, but to trap us in the past, so that we neglect the present, the only time God gives us His grace and we can cooperate with Him to fulfill His will.”

Of all the demons, the one that most holds men back and prevents them from being happy is “what could have been and was not.” The past is left to the mercy of God and the future to His providence. Only the present is in our hands. Live today loving God with all your heart.

(Modified from original text)
Ctto: Michael Acebedo Lopez

 

Embracing Imperfection: The Beauty of Flaws in the Human Experience

 

 

Embracing Imperfection: The Beauty of Flaws in the Human Experience

 

BY Olivia Salter

 

I think perfection is ugly. Somewhere in the things humans make, I want to see scars, failure, disorder, distortion.

– Yohji Yamamoto

In a world that often glorifies perfection, fashion designer Yohji Yamamoto's words remind us of the inherent beauty found in imperfection. As humans, we are constantly bombarded with images of flawlessness, whether it be in the form of airbrushed models on magazine covers or meticulously curated social media feeds. However, Yamamoto challenges us to look beyond the facade of perfection and instead embrace the scars, failures, disorder, and distortions that make us uniquely human.

In a society that places so much value on achievement and conformity, it can be easy to overlook the beauty that lies in our imperfections. We are taught to strive for flawlessness in every aspect of our lives, from our appearances to our careers, relationships, and beyond. Yet, in our pursuit of perfection, we often lose sight of the essence of what it means to be truly alive—to experience both joy and pain, success and failure, growth and setbacks.

Yamamoto's philosophy speaks to the idea that imperfection is not something to be feared or hidden but rather celebrated as a testament to our resilience and authenticity. Our scars tell the stories of our journey; our failures teach us valuable lessons; our disorder forces us to find beauty in chaos; and our distortions challenge us to see things from a different perspective.

By embracing imperfection, we allow ourselves the freedom to be vulnerable, to make mistakes, and to grow from our experiences. It is through our flaws that we learn what it truly means to be human—flawed yet infinitely beautiful in our complexity.

So, the next time you find yourself striving for perfection, remember Yamamoto's words and consider the beauty that lies in imperfection. Embrace your scars, failures, disorders, and distortions, for they are what make you beautifully, uniquely, and authentically you.